Theme: Good proposals
Moving on
Miguel and his family had just moved to a new city
because of his father's job.
But Miguel was not enjoying the
change. He missed his old room and the new house still
needed some adjustments. There was no mirror in the
bathroom and Miguel was surprised to have to brush his
hair without being able to see himself. He couldn't find
his toys or clothes, which were still in the moving
boxes.
One afternoon, after doing his
homework from school, Miguel grabbed his soccer ball and
went to distract himself in the yard.
He started kicking the ball against
the wall and his mother, hearing the noise, went into
the yard and warned him:
- Careful, Miguel, you don't need to
kick so hard. Don't break the pots!
Miguel paid no attention and
continued to play. Suddenly, due to a very bad and
strong kick, the ball went too high and cross over the
wall. Miguel heard the sound of glass breaking. The ball
had gone through the window of the neighbor's house.
Miguel was terrified. He ran into the house, not knowing
what to do.
Embarrassed, Miguel told his mother
what had happened.
She hugged him and said:
- Calm down, son! It doesn't have to
be like this! Let's go talk to the neighbor. We will
offer to pay for the window repair and apologize for the
inconvenience. You can't undo what happened, but let's
do what it is possible now.
Miguel didn’t want to go, he rather
that his mother solved everything by herself. But he had
to go anyway. When the neighbor answered, Miguel's
mother introduced them, with big shame, apologized. The
neighbor was kind and even returned the ball. They
agreed on repairing and paying for the glass.
Everything was fine. But not for
Miguel. In addition to the new house, the new school,
the lack of friends, he was now ashamed to have broken
the neighbor's window that they didn't even know.
His mother, realizing that the son
was dejected, called him to talk. Miguel, then, taking
advantage of his mother's attention, began to complain
about everything.
He talked about all the things he
didn't like. He explained that he felt guilty for
kicking hard, even after she warned him. He ended by
saying that nothing was going right for him in that city
and that he wanted to leave.
The mother listened to him carefully
and calmly.
- Son, you know that your father's
job is here now. And complaining about everything it is
not going to solve a thing. Do you know what we have to
do when everything is bad?
Miguel shook his head, saying no. She
continued:
- We need to identify each thing that
is bothering us and persist in doing what it is
necessary for things to improve. That´s it, we need to
move forward, with good attitudes.
- It can't be improved anything here;
it is so bad - Miguel replied crossly.
- But we won't know before we try -
said the mother, optimistically, taking out a pen and
paper - Let's make a list.
The list started with the
arrangements for the house: buying curtains for the
bedrooms, unpacking the moving boxes, packing things in
the cupboards, putting a mirror in the bathroom, etc.
On the following days, they carried
out the items on the list. They modified some, added
others, but remained committed to making things better.
After a while, it really started to happen.
Miguel made some friends at school
and started playing football matches, which he loved.
He met the neighbor's son and played
with him a few times. When at his house, he was always
polite. The neighbor treated him well and he was no
longer ashamed of what had happened.
Miguel's house was getting cozy and
he loved the decoration of his new room.
In a few months, Miguel was already
adapted to the new city, where he started to live
happily.
Persisting in positive attitudes is
the right way to transform our lives for the better.
Translation:
Larissa Martine - larissa_am@hotmail.com
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