Necessity
of forgiveness
The day was beautiful and pleasant.
Marcelo, though, arrived home nervous
and irritated.
He came in stamping his feet, slammed
the door and threw his backpack on a
chair.
His mom, who observed him, came closer
asking:
— Why are you so moody, my son? Sun is
shining out there and life is beautiful!
What happened to justify the nasty way
you came in today?
The boy answered, grumpy:
— I’m mad at Gabriel. Besides
ripping my favorite book, he
still argued with me. I’ll never
forgive him!
His mom hugged him and said:
— Don’t say that, my son. We all
need forgiveness, because we
also make mistakes. Jesus taught
that we should forgive not only
seven times, but seventy times
seven. That is, he taught that
we should always forgive.
Besides, we should never judge
others. I wonder if
Gabriel tore your
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— I couldn’t care less. I don’t him as a
friend anymore — said the boy.
His mom went with her fingers through
his hair and said:
— Try to forgive, Marcelo. While you
don’t forget it, you won’t have peace
and happiness.
— I can’t, mom. I think I don’t know how
to forgive.
His mom seemed to meditate for some time
and then she said:
— Do you remember when you got that
bike?
— How could I forget? —Marcelo replied.
— How many times I fell down till I
started riding around!
— That’s
true, my son.
Today, though, you don’t remember it
anymore when you go for a ride. What
about swimming?
— Those were hard times! — the boy said.
— And when you started reading and
writing? — his mom insisted.
— That was hard. Thanks God now I know
how to do both — the boy said, happy.
— So, my son, no pain, no gain. Our
shortcomings also need a whole lot of
good will of our part to be improved.
And grudge is one of them. We need to
learn how to forgive.
— Ah!
Got that already. You mean that I need
to exercise forgiveness, right?
— Exactly.
— Ok, mom. I’ll try.
On the following day, Marcelo went to
play with a neighbor and, accidentally,
broke the kid’s miniature car.
Sad, but conformed, the boy accepted his
apologies, saying:
— It doesn’t matter, Marcelo. I know you
didn’t mean to.
As he heard his friend’s words, that
should be mad at him, Marcelo remembered
his mom’s words when she said everybody
needs forgiveness.
On that same day, he looked for his
classmate and, with a sincere smile,
said:
— I want to apologize if I were rude the
other day, Gabriel.
— You were right, Marcelo. I tore your
book — the boy said.
— But I’m sure you didn’t mean to — he
said.
— That’s right. It fell off my hands
and, trying to hold it, I ended up
tearing it.
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They hugged each other,
promising a mutual friendship.
After classes, Marcelo took
Gabriel to his house and
introduced to his mother.
— Mom, this is my “friend”
Gabriel — he said, stressing the
word.
Satisfied by his son’s smile,
his mom realized the
misunderstanding was
over and that Marcelo had
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learned how to forgive.
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Aunt
Célia
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