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Anselmo Ferreira Vasconcelos |
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Unveiling the
meaning of
happiness |
To be happy is a
genuinely human
ambition. In a
certain way we
spend most of
our existence in
the ursue of
happiness. As
the psychologist
Martin E. P.
Seligman
ponders, ‘More
words were used
to define
happiness than
any other
philosophical
issue”1.
In fact a quick
search on Google
finds over 24
million entries
for the term
happiness.
In spite of
that, happiness
is still a
misunderstood
concept. After
all, people
still attribute
certain states,
characteristics
and descriptions
that do not fit
or restrict its
meaning.
According to
another
prominent
psychologist,
Michael Argyle
(1995-2002),
people generally
describe
happiness in
terms of
contentment,
satisfaction,
peace of mind, a
feeling of
accomplishment,
delight, joy,
among other
things.
2
Establishing
more clearly its
conceptual
borders,
Seligman
considers
important to be
able to
distinguish a
momentary
happiness from
an enduring one.3
Therefore, the
temporary one
can be enhanced
by the use of
experiences
(enjoyments)
temporary and/or
swift such as
going to the
movies, theater,
shopping mall,
to enjoy some
chocolate, get a
promotion, a
rise in the
salary, etc. But
to improve the
constant of
happiness is
something that
the increase in
the number of
episodes of
momentary
positive
feelings
will not attain.
Perhaps this is
why the concept
of happiness has
been suffering
countless
interpretations
throughout
history.
By the way, the
medium Divaldo
P. Franco has
made astounding
remarks about
the theme.
Going back in
time, he
declares that it
was in Greece
that the concept
of hedonism
– still utterly
relevant in
present times -
flourished as a
philosophy that
embraced
“pleasure and
beauty as
supreme assets
of human life”.4
Some
of the more
prominent
representatives
of this school
were Aristippus
of Cyrene
(435-366 BC) and
Epicurus of
Samos (341-270
BC).
The hedonist
thinking in
modern days -
So, while the
first said that
pleasure was a
good in itself,
and could be
used intensely;
the latter
determined the
moderation of
pleasure, with
the aim to reach
true happiness.
“The two
doctrines were
confused
throughout the
centuries, but
what lingered on
in history was
the hedonist
notion of
Aristippus, who
preached the
unrestrained
search for
sensorial
pleasures, such
as eating,
drinking,
sleeping and
having sex,
without any
moral
evaluations”.5
It is not hard
to realize that
the hedonist
thinking
strongly
influences a
great deal of
the mankind
presently
incarnated. Just
look at drug
addiction,
alcoholism and
sex addiction
that especially
dominate young
minds. But in a
flagrant
contrast with
the afore
mentioned
thinkers,
Socrates (469 –
399 BC):
“[...] in his
day and age
already said
that happiness
is independent
of having, of
not having, of
enduring pain.
The true
happiness is
being. But,
in order to be,
three factors
are
indispensable:
straight
thinking,
straight conduct
and healthy
words”.
6
Franco also
mentions the
notable cynical,
Diogenes of
Sinope (412 –
323BC) who lived
as a beggar and,
as such,
despised the
powerful and
social
conventions. His
philosophy
vehemently
condemned
pleasure, desire
and lust.7Another
philosopher’s
ideas also
fascinated us,
one who by the
way exerts great
influence in
today’s academic
thinking, that
is Aristotle
(384-322 BC),
disciple of
Plato. Aristotle
developed the
concept of
eudemonia,
the meaning in
Greek of the
word “eu” evokes
that idea of
good or welfare
and “daemon”,
Spirit.
And here’s is a
clear
improvement in
the subject,
for, as the
scholar Eduardo
Wills observes,
eudemonia
considers
welfare more
important than
the hedonic
happiness
because it has
to do with the
realization of
human
potentials.
8
Happiness and
its relationship
with the
virtuous life –
For him, the
Aristotle view
interprets
happiness as
part of a
virtuous or
ethical
understanding of
life. But, after
all, what guides
human action is
precisely the
pursuit of
happiness. The
Aristotelian
thinking also
advocates that
in order to find
out the true
meaning of
happiness it is
vital to examine
human nature
(Spirit) in all
it complexity.9
Within this
perspective, it
is certain that
the exercise of
human faculties
in all their
excellence will
lead to
happiness, and
by that it
constitutes a
life’s
commitment. To
Wills, “Thus,
the pursuit of
happiness will
have practical
implications in
terms of living
a virtuous
life”. In this
conception,
happiness is the
product of the
way we use our
skills. In fact,
well known
characters of
today linked to
financial and
political
scandals
seriously
compromised
their levels of
happiness when
not adopting a
virtuous
conduct. After
all, their names
are clearly
identifies as
evil doers or
transgressors of
the law. At
last, it is very
auspicious that
a scientist such
as Wills
proposes that
satisfaction
with
spirituality
will contribute
to obtaining
high levels of
satisfaction
with life as
part of the
eudemonic view
of happiness.
10
However, when
examining the
nuances of
happiness,
Michael Argyle
suggested that
“Happiness can
be understood as
a reflection on
the satisfaction
with life, or
the frequency
and intensity of
positive
emotions”.11With
effect, there’s
substantial
empirical proof
that positive
emotions create
a shield against
the “damages of
ageing”, as
Seligman attests12.
On the other
hand, students
of happiness
have argued that
people and
nations are more
or less happy
taking into
consideration a
few positive
feelings related
to dimensions:
social
relationships,
work and
unemployment,
leisure, money,
class, culture,
personality,
joy, life
satisfaction,
age, sex,
health, progress
and so on.13
What makes a
life worthy -
Based on that,
Argyle stated
that general
life conditions
affect
happiness. So
happiness is a
multi-dimensional
concept. In
other words: it
is the result of
many causes. In
today’s world,
as we know,
monetary assets
play a big role
on people’s
lives, but are
not necessarily
synonyms of
happiness.
According to
Seligman, “More
than money
itself, but
influences
happiness is the
importance you
attribute to it
[...]”.14
But what
makes a life
worthy?
According to a
research
developed by
Gallup institute
on a global
scale it is
necessary to
satisfy five
essential
elements,
namely: career,
social,
financial,
physical and
community
welfare.
15
Nowadays there
are even
rankings of
happiness of
nations. For
instance, the
Happy Planet
Index that
measures up life
expectancy,
welfare and
ecological
factors.
Although they
serve as
parameter, they
are imperfect
because each
uses a certain
group of
variables or
specific
criteria of
measurement that
end up leading,
in a certain
way, to
subjectivity.
Furthermore, we
notice in the
current thinking
and measurement
of happiness a
clear
inclination/
bias for
“owning” as
opposed to
“being”. That
said, what can
religion offer
us about
happiness in a
world with so
much
unhappiness?
Seligman argues
that: “The
relationship
between hope in
the future and
religious faith
is probably the
cornerstone in
which religion
drives away
despair and
increases
happiness [...]”.16
If
religions
contributed with
this perception
alone they would
be doing a
certainly
noticeable job.
But to
encapsulating
all life’s
complexities in
the material
dimension, the
Spirit Joanna de
Angelis goes
further when
affirming that:
“[...]one cannot
enjoy broad
happiness during
one’s carnal
journey,
however, through
moral acts each
person can ease
the afflictions
that come from
unfortunate
experiences
originated in
their past
existences”.17Or
as Allan Kardec
wisely summed
up, “Happiness
does not belong
to this world”.
18
Socrates
proposition and
the
Spiritualistic
proposition -
In turn, Divaldo
P. Franco
reminds us that:
“Spiritualism
considers
happiness
through the
proposition of
Socrates and
Jesus. Socrates
states that it
is more
important to be
than to have.
Happiness from a
Socratic point
of view is the
result of
righteous
thoughts, of
balanced actions
and peaceful
hearts. One can
only have a
peaceful heart
if he or she
behaves
correctly, and
one can only act
with balance if
he or she thinks
well”.19
This proposal
was completely
absorbed by the
newly-born
Christianity,
and Jesus showed
throughout his
short life – but
with the utmost
coherence, let’s
say – that more
important than
external values
is the condition
of peace
achieved by the
human creature.
Therefore,
Spiritualism
explains Franco,
defends that
true happiness
comes from a
tranquil
consciousness, a
natural
consequence, by
the way, of an
individual who
owns a straight
character and is
based on a
straight
conduct.
The respectable
medium offers
sensible
explanations
about the theme
that deserve our
reflection –
that is:
“Why isn’t
happiness from
this world?
Because we live
in a relative
world and
happiness would
be a permanent
achievement.
Since we live in
relativity, we
live in
unstability.
Happiness must
be stable.
“Why is there
such relativity?
Because we
confuse up
pleasure with
happiness
[...]”20
In this sense,
Joanna de
Angelis informs
us that “Only by
conquering
eternal values
we acquire
assets that
don’t change
hands and a
harmony that
wins”.21
Franco, in his
turn, clarifies
that Jesus in
his mission of
awakening us for
the truth
informed us that
his kingdom was
not of this
world. And such
assertiveness
must be
interpreted as
“[...]Happiness
belongs to the
kingdom of
God.”
Broad happiness
awaits us -
But, if the
kingdom of God
is not of this
world, there is
a subtlety: it
is not of this
world, but
starts in this
world. It is
here that we
should place the
pillars of
happiness,
establish the
ethical and
moral basis of
our own
existence
[...]”22
However, “[...]
in order to go
to this
transcendental
world, we’re
here on Earth
preparing the
steps of
ascension
through our
moral life”.23
He
also rightly
notices that:
“Jesus came to
design real
happiness,
Goodness. If we
wish for
happiness, let’s
love, but in
such a way as if
we’re loving
ourselves, with
a self love that
many people
don’t possess[...]”.24
That is why true
happiness is the
one allows for
inner peace
because it is
built on
universal laws.
It does not
depend on any
material
possessions or
momentary
pleasures.
Finally, Kardec
provides
interesting
explanations
about the
transcendental
meaning of
happiness upon
which we should
meditate:
“Supreme
happiness
consists of the
enjoyment of all
creation’s
splendors that
any human
language could
ever describe,
that the most
fertile
imagination
could conceive.
It also consists
in the
penetration of
all things, in
the absence of
moral and
physical
suffering, in an
intimate
satisfaction, in
an imperturbable
serenity of the
soul, in the
love that
surrounds all
beings, due to
the absence of
the friction
with evil, and,
above all, in
the
contemplation of
God and the
understanding of
His mysteries
revealed to the
most dignified.
Happiness is
also present in
the tasks that
make us happy.
The Pure Spirits
are the Messiahs
or Messengers of
God by the
transmission and
execution of His
will. They
fulfill the
great missions,
preside the
formation of
worlds and the
general harmony
of the Universe,
a glorious task
achieved only by
perfection. The
ones from the
most elevated
order are the
only ones to
possess the
secrets of God,
inspired by His
thought, of
which they are
direct
representatives”.25This
broad happiness
awaits us, but
we must work to
deserve it.
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