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Jorge Leite
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How to
avoid
melancholy
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Depression,
known in
antiquity
as
melancholia,
has been
the
great
evil of
mankind.
The best
therapy
for this
ancient
disease
is love
therapy,
and the
best
therapist
is
Jesus.
However,
it is
medical
and
spiritual
accompaniment
simultaneously
is often
essential.
The
human
being is
a
spiritual
bio-psycho-social
being.
Therefore,
depression
has been
attributed
to four
causes
which
are
usually
associated:
biological,
psychological
, social
and
spiritual
. Next,
let's
look at
how each
issue is
manifested
and what
therapies
are
indicated
for
their
control.
1st
-
biological
or
organic
cause:
It is
believed
that
some
people
are born
genetically
with an
organic
dysfunction.
Others
acquire
chronic
diseases
that
also
lead to
depression,
such as
AIDS ,
cancer ,
obesity
,
arthritis
etc.
The
treatment
in such
cases
should
be made
by a
psychiatrist,
who will
try to
shall
make up
for the
deficiency
of
serotonin
in the
patient
through
antidepressants.
These
people
need a
psychological,
as well
as
clinical
follow-up
and
therefore
must
follow
strict
medical
advice.
2nd
- Social
Cause:
Inactivity,
loneliness;
among
other
social
causes;
can lead
a person
to feel
neglected
by
society
and
which
makes
them
feel
useless,
demotivated
and
deeply
sad.
The best
treatment
for
melancholy
in such
cases is
physical
activity.
A daily
thirty
minute
walk ,
jog or
competitive
run;
according
to one’s
physical
conditions
and
individual
taste;
or
dance,
light
exercises
at a
gym at
least
three
times a
week are
optimal
therapies
for
these
people.
Still,
if the
problem
gets
worse,
also in
this,
psychological
therapy
and / or
psychiatric
is
indispensable.
Sometimes
one
needs to
know how
to say
no
3rd
-
Psychological
Cause:
the
death of
a loved
one, the
loss of
a good
job,
couple
separation,
sexual
abuse,
among
other
events
may
cause a
person
to have
psychological
disorders.
Besides
these,
there
are
other
problems,
such as
stress,
resulting
from
accumulation
of
activities,
the need
to be
accepted,
perfectionism
and
anxiety.
When a
couple
separates,
particularly
for not
having
sexual
attraction
from a
partner
anymore,
distress
and its
consequences
from
such a
situation
can
become
unbearable.
Its
consequences
even
affect
their
children
in cases
where
there
are
those.
That is
why
there is
dating,
so that
people
get to
know
each
other
very
well,
before
assuming
a stable
relationship.
Allied
to this
, one
must
know how
to live
together,
requiring
sometimes
one
member
of the
couple
to
forego
certain
whims,
for the
benefit
of
another.
Dialogue,
daily
exchange
of
affection,
understanding,
renouncement
and
tolerance,
among
other
positive
qualities
from
love,
are
fundamental
to a
permanent
family
life
.Regarding
stress,
we must
remember
that we
can not
make
greater
commitments
than
those
that are
strength
can cope
with.
Sometimes
one
needs to
know how
to say
no,
without
thereby
be
offended
or
offend
those
who ask
us for a
favour
or
service.
There
are
people
who, due
to their
need to
be
accepted,
refuse
nothing,
though
not
always
they can
deliver
what has
been
asked
form
them.
With
this,
they
become
depressed.
Other
people,
attentive
to the
advice
of Jesus
to be
perfect,
begin to
compare
themselves
to great
missionaries
and
saints.
Now when
Jesus
tells us
to: "Be
perfect,"
He knows
better
than
anyone
how
important
it is to
give
"one
step at
a time"
because
if we
run a
lot
through
bumpy
roads,
we can
take
such a
tumble
that we
will be
difficult
to pick
ourselves
up.
Anyone
can be a
victim
of an
obsessing
spirit
That's
why
Kardec
wrote
this
sentence:
"The
true
Spiritist
can be
recognized
by their
moral
transformation
and the
efforts
they
employ
to tame
their
evil
inclinations"
(Kardec,
2008,
chapter
17, item
4). He
did not
say that
we must
become
saint
from one
moment
to
another,
and
surely,
we
should
always
strive
to be
better.
Anxiety
is
another
difficulty
to be
overcome
by us to
combat
the
psychological
causes
of
depression.
There
are
people
who go
from one
activity
to
another,
barely
starting
the
first
one and
ending
up
forgetting
or
finish
later
ones or
working
with
delay or
carelessly
on
almost
everything
they do.
It takes
us the
continuous
process
of
self-knowledge
as
stated
in
question
919 of
The
Spirits’
Book,
to act
with
common
sense
and
balance
in
everything
we do in
everyday
life. We
must
have
timetable
for
everything:
to
study,
to work,
to
exercise
and for
prayer
and
meditation.
Without
it, our
mental
life
becomes
a
“hell”.
4th
-
Spiritual
Cause.
The
moral
imperfections
we bring
printed
on our
mental
field
lead us
to
disregard
the
recommendation
of
Jesus: "
Watch
and
pray,
lest ye
enter
into
temptation."
Such
defects
are
mainly
based on
selfishness,
whence
all the
other
imperfections
of each
of us
derive
from,
such as
pride,
vanity,
jealousy,
envy,
greed,
sensuality
and
negative
passions
.
Anyone
can be a
victim
of an
obsessing
spirit
because,
according
to the
response
of a
Spirit
to Allan
Kardec ,
" the
spirits
influence
our
thoughts
and
actions
far more
than we
realize
,
because
ordinarily
, they
are what
drive us
" (
Kardec ,
2006
question
459).
Also
anyone
can
always
have the
company
of good
spirits,
which
neutralize
the
influence
of evil.
Just
think
and act
always
in the
good.
"Always
be good
and you
will
have
only
good
spirits
at your
side” (
Kardec ,
2009 ,
chapter
9 item
13 ) .
But t
obsession
can
range
from the
simple
kind up
to the
subjugation
type, as
stated
in The
Mediums’
Book
(Kardec
, 2009 ,
chapter
9 ).
Fascination
is a
very
dangerous
type of
obsession
In
simple
obsession,
the
person
knows
that he
is under
the
influence
of a
"liar
spirit"
who
"does
not
disguise
nor
conceals
in any
way its
bad
intentions
and its
purpose
to
contradict".
The evil
entity
can be
removed
from the
obsession
victims
by their
own
action
of
modifying
their
negative
mental
habits
and
putting
all
their
trust in
God. The
therapy
of love
towards
other
fellow
creatures,
the
study of
the
basic
works of
Allan
Kardec
and
permanent
action
in the
good is
highly
effective
for both
the
obsessing
spirit,
and for
the
obsessed
victim,
providing
both
with
their
moral
elevation.
Fascination
is a
very
dangerous
kind of
obsession.
"It is
an
illusion
produced
by the
direct
action
of a
Spirit
upon the
thought
of the
medium
and
which,
somehow,
paralyses
their
ability
to judge
communications"
(Kardec,
2009,
page
389,
item
239).
The one
going
through
fascination
does not
believed
he is
being
cheated,
on the
contrary,
he
believes
blindly
in the
Spirit
that is
obsessing
him and
he
repels
those
people
who try
to open
his
eyes.
The
therapy
of love,
with
prayers
and
disobsession
by
distance
are
appropriate
resources
to such
a case.
Finally,
subjugation
process
"paralyzes
the will
of the
one who
suffers
it and
renders
him to
act
against
his
will."
For
further
information
about
this
serious
matter,
we refer
the
fiend
reader
to
chapter
23 of
The
Mediums'
Book,
where
one can
be
clarified
further.
The
causes
of
obsession
can
range
from the
simple
desire
to do
harm to
revenge
towards
the
person
who
offended
the
obsessing
Spirit
in this
or other
physical
existence.
But
besides
the
negative
influence
of
spirits
in our
minds,
we may
be
subject
to moral
influences
from our
own
behaviours,
which
characterize
the
so-called
self-obsession.
Therapy
for
these
causes
that
lead to
depression
of the
misfit
spiritual,
is still
the
"therapy
of
love",
which is
carried
out by
means of
disobssessing
treatments
in
spiritist
centres,
in
so-called
"groups
of
obsession."
To this
end,
when the
unbalanced
person
is not
able to
identify
the
problem
by
himself
or get
rid of
negative
influences,
it is
important
that his
family
or
friends
lead him
lovingly
to the
meetings
of these
groups.
The best
therapy
is the
desire
to
become
healed
The
person
under
the
obsession
process
(being
obsessed)
should
be
sitting,
or even
lying
down, if
there is
room for
it in a
room
dedicated
to
spiritual
treatment
and
should
not take
part in
any way,
as a
medium
or even
common
assistant
to the
meeting.
As one
is
someone
in
spiritual
treatment,
one
should
not be
working.
Concomitantly,
at the
end of
the
meeting,
the
group
leader
should
recommend
his
psychiatric
monitoring,
since
his
psychic
and
physical
organs
may also
be
affected.
If the
patient
can not
attend
the
mediumship
group,
his
disobssessing
treatment
can be
done at
a
distance.
Passes
or
Therapy
of
passes
(laying
on of
hands
healing)
is very
helpful
in the
therapy
of
depression
rooted
in
spiritual
maladjustment
spirit.
Another
useful
recommendation
to reach
re-equilibrium
as well
as to
the
maintenance
of our
mental
health
is the
weekly
practice
of
worshiping
of the
Gospel
at home.
The
permanent
study of
the
works of
the
Spiritist
Codification
and
subsidiary
works
such as
psychographic
works by
Divaldo
Franco,
dictated
by
spirits
Joanna
de
Ângelis
and
Philomeno
Manuel
Miranda
is
essential
and
fundamental
for
spiritual
re-equilibrium
of
victims
of
depression.
In none
of the
four
aforementioned
types of
depression,
the
patient
should
no
longer
seek
specialized
medical
care,
especially
when
their
situation
became
unbearable.
The best
therapy
is the
desire
to be
healed.
But it
is
necessary
that the
person,
or, in
severe
cases, a
friend
or
relative
seek in
Jesus
and in
the
Spirit
Doctrine
the
supporters
for the
spiritual
bio-psycho-social
re-equilibrium
of the
depressed
person.
This
means
striving
to have
good
thoughts,
seek
incessantly
work on
the
good,
keep
your
mind
occupied
with
good
reads
and high
ideals,
practice
regular
physical
activity,
such as
dancing,
walking
and
healthy
body
exercises.
Be
happy,
but do
not
overdo
anything.
Thus,
surely,
one’s
melancholy
will be
on the
path of
healing.
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