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Eugênia
Pickina |
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End of
childhood? When
being a child is
a nuisance... |
"In
a fast-paced and
hyperactive
society a
child's activity
is often not
tolerated".(Bernard
Golse)
The doctor was
called when the
teacher said she
noticed the boy,
hyperactive on
rainy days,
angry with the
number four,
nervous about
storytelling,
and on other
sunny days he
was absent
minded, staring
at the blank
ceiling, and not
paying attention
not even to the
computer...
Then she said
that for three
times he spoke
her name out,
loud, to call
her attention.
It was useless,
it was a case of
lost childhood,
she argued, and
the coordinator
supported her
technical
speech.
And if someone
had the common
sense of the art
of dreaming, he
would also add
to the teacher's
senseless words,
"yes, it is
the child's
allurement for
playing that
takes him out of
these solid
walls, which
instead teach
how to march..."
The school board
called the
parents and in
secrecy informed
them of what was
happening.
The mother, a
little
distressed,
tried to explain
the boy's
behavior due to
his age, since
he was only five
years old!
Who does not get
bored sometimes
with the
sameness of
teaching, or
would not once
in a while
become absent
due to an
insipid lesson,
quickly flying
to a secret
garden to watch
from the top of
a tree, a pale
chrysalis that
will soon become
a butterfly?
The fantasy
world is not a
safe bridge...
However, they
replied that in
school what
mattered was
rigor, feet
solidly grounded
to enter the
knowledge of
things already
known for a
fact. Moreover,
all this has the
purpose to avoid
a serious risk
for the boy in
the future, the
danger of
utopia!
In addition, the
coordinator
stated that the
guidelines that
have been tested
several times
are the right
ones to be
followed.
Therefore, even
in school, a
bilingual
school, time to
play is very
little, because
there is a full
schedule to
follow.
The father
discussed this
point and said,
but the
universe of the
child is still
very small. He
only has a brief
time for himself
in the morning
and then he has
his school
hours. Is it not
better if
playing time is
maintained,
because at his
age to play does
it not mean
happiness?
The parents had
no success in
their
argumentation
and felt trapped
because it
became clear for
them that the
world of fantasy
is not a safe
bridge for
someone to be
capable of
living his life
in thirty
years.
Without
reviewing the
educational
pact, the
parents the
following week
brought the
child to the
doctor appointed
by the school
board.
The doctor no
doubt after
examining the
boy, and
listening to the
melodies,
watching the
imaginary
clouds, ponds,
rocks, animals,
and rainbow
bridges in the
child's mind,
sentenced him to
a chemical
straightjacket,
because this
child, who so
much loved to
play, suffered
an attention
deficit and
hyperactivity
disorder - ADHD!
But isn't
methylphenidate
a drug?
the edgy mother
asked the
doctor, who had
long deleted
from his memory
what doctor
Groddeck said
one day: "the
purpose of life
is to be a
child".
And the boy was
bored again
Stripped of the
essential, the
joy of living,
the doctor, in
an objective
manner,
explained to the
parents the list
of symptoms
[many questions]
of that boy,
thus justifying
his diagnosis.
At the end of
the medical
appointment, in
a polite voice
he assured the
parents that the
drug would
correct the
deficit by
helping the
child to focus
and to retain
with efficiency
what was taught
to him.
In the following
months, the boy
and his body
were calmed down
by means of a
chemical gag
that makes him
walk in the
indicated
direction,
according to now
very limited
fantasies.
An unlike
metamorphosis
took place,
sadly invisible
to the eyes of
his father and
mother: the boy
with brown eyes
now lives
clinging to
things, like a
caterpillar on a
leaf, the end of
his childhood.
The parents,
however, are now
quiet, despite
the long hours
of work. The son
asks no
questions and
follows in peace
with the school.
He received a
wooden train
from his
grandfather. He
placed it on his
desk. He looked
at the five
colored wagons
and all seemed
so dull, because
he has no
imagination
left. Nothing
appeals to him
because early he
was expelled
from the
paradise of
play.
The toy on the
shelf is in a
second place.
There he was
bored again,
because his
inventive
capacity was
blocked. He
turned into the
boy something
else. At five
and a half years
old, he walks in
a well-contained
manner into the
arid and gray
world of the
grown up.
Conclusion
Ah, if only the
boy could ... If
he only had been
granted a (fair)
defense... His
lawyer, a fairy
tales writer,
without fear of
monsters, would
clarify that the
child's
resentment is a
legitimate
certificate,
most of the
times, of the
incompetence of
the school, or
lack of joy that
often disturbs a
child trapped at
home, between
walls and the
TV. Moreover,
his recreation
and
absent-minded,
in turn, is the
door that opens
to the seed of
novelty, which
grows on other
worlds, often
far from the
sameness of
Education or the
pitfalls of
digital sites.
Finally, the
boy's defense
would allege
that these
imaginary worlds
generally have
no experts of
knowledge tools.
They are peopled
by a playful
nature, woven
together with
innocence, a
golden key that
keeps alive the
pure state of
childhood. On
the other hand,
childhood should
never be buried
before the
time...
Who does this to
a child
deserves, at
least, to be
forbidden to
live the
sensitive
prelude to life.
His behavior
casts a shadow
on the right to
play, which
belongs to every
child.
Some
considerations
This text has a
special reason:
to make one
think about the
indiscriminate
use, on a child,
of
methylphenidate
(commercially
known as
Ritalin),
related to
amphetamines,
prescribed for
adults and
children
suffering from
attention
deficit and
hyperactivity
disorder (ADHD).
This drug aims
to improve
concentration,
reduce fatigue
and accumulate
more information
in less time.
However, as a
drug, it causes
addiction,
because it has
the same
mechanism of
cocaine, and was
classified as a
narcotic
by the Drug
Enforcement
Administration
narcotic.
Unfortunately,
Brazil accounts
for the second
worldwide
position in
using this drug,
ranking only
behind the
United States.
In the case of a
diagnosis of
ADHD, what
should the
parents do?
1) Get a second
opinion. And,
for example,
they could
consider the
opinion of an
homeopathic
pediatrician
too.
2)
Revise/question
the pedagogical
method adopted
by the school
attended by the
child.
3) The parents,
or the person
responsible for
the child,
should think
about the
child's habits
at home, the
lack of contact
with
nature/games,
time spent
watching TV and
the use of
digital
technologies...
look for
support, if such
is the case,
from a family
therapist.
Ritalin and its
consequences
I am strongly of
the same opinion
regarding the
use of Ritalin
led by Maria
Aparecida
Affonso Moyses
(Full Professor
of the
Pediatrics
Department,
Faculty of
Medical Sciences
- Unicamp). She
says, "For
those who
indicate
[Ritalin], when
there is an ADHD
diagnosis, I do
not indicate its
use. (...) If I
do not prescribe
it to a
grandchild of
mine, I also do
not prescribe it
for any another
child".
Furthermore, she
explains that
the "apparent
calmness"
induced by the
drug in children
is not a
positive
therapeutic
outcome, but
rather a "sign
of toxicity."
She further
explains that
this drug is
dangerous
because it can
cause addiction
and symptoms
like headaches,
dizziness and a
zombie like
effect,
where a person
is chemically
contained in
herself. And in
her opinion, as
a medical
doctor, what
counts is the
family
orientation.
In an interview
(Portal Unicamp)
the following
question is made
to the
pediatrician
Cida Moyses,
"Who is being
medicated with
[Ritalin]?
Children, who
are always
questioning (who
do not easily
submit to the
rules) and those
who dream,
fantasize, and
who are
utopian... (...)
Thus, what is
being aborted?
We are aborting
the questioning
and the utopias".
(See Moyses,
Maria Aparecida
Affonso (2013).
Ritalin and
the risks of a
"genocide of the
future".
www.unicamp.br).
It is worth
watching the
documentary
White Stripe -
the revolution
that was missing.
Directed by
Cacau Rhoden and
produced by
Maria Farinha
Movies. It shows
us that playing
(in our society)
is in risk of
disappearing
and, therefore,
it is urgent to
rescue and
promote it for
the good/health
of our children.
References:
Breggin, P.
(1998).
Talking back to
Ritalin: what
doctors are not
telling you
about stimulants
for children.
Monroe, Maine:
Common Courage
Press.
Janin, Beatriz
(2002).
"Vicisitudes del
proceso de
aprender"
Cuestiones de
infancia, n. 6,
Buenos Aires,
UCES.
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