spiritist?
I came from a
Catholic family,
but I remember
since early days
searching for
rational faith.
I always tried
to understand
the differences
between human
beings. They
seemed to be
unfair, if we
thought there
was only one
existence in
life. It seemed
none-sense to
me. I heard
about Spiritism
but I wasn’t
sure what it
was. My
intuition was
present in my
life, but it was
at the end of my
teenage years
that I started
to get in touch
with the
Spiritist
Doctrine. One of
my friends
borrowed me
The Spirits'
Book.
I connected with
what was written
there. I finally
managed to find
the answers to
all my
questions. By
the time I
finished reading
it, I started to
go to public
lectures and
study groups in
Pelotas
(RS), where I
studied
Medicine.
O Consolador:
What roles have
you taken within
the Spiritist
Movement?
I have been
linked since
2000 to the
spiritist group
Seara do
Mestre. This
centre is based
in Santo Ângelo
(RS), where I do
public lectures,
sing and play
guitar for the
children before
their spiritist
classes on
Saturday
afternoons. I
coordinate
project to
support families
of drug addicts,
called
Grupo Apoio
Fraterno.
Our activities
are held every
Thursdays at
7pm.
O Consolador:
You are
frequently
requested to
speak at
seminars and
lectures.
How did this
start?
I was first
invited by the
President of
Grupo Espírita
Seara do Mestre
to give a
lecture on HIV
(Aids), focusing
on Medicine and
Spiritism. I
would highlight
the fact that I
learn so much
from it and feel
such a great
energy from
doing this.
Plus, I also
have the
possibility to
help another
individual by
taking the
spiritist-medical
point of view to
them. I feel I
can give them
hope, faith and
a clear message
through it.
O Consolador:
Would you like
to mention a
special moment
in your life to
us?
Yes, I would.
There was a
moment when I
heard the call
from the
spiritual
benefactors to
start to work
with drug
addicts and
their relatives
at the spiritist
centre. It
happened when I
was about to
finish a
presentation on
drugs. I was
really concerned
about this,
since I didn’t
believe I was
the right person
for this
project.
Therefore, I
later saw how
much help and
preparation we
got from the
spiritual
benefactors so
we could
accomplish this
task.
O Consolador:
How do you see
this drug
pandemic that
has increase
massively in our
society? Crack,
for instance,
has become
enormously
popular...
Drugs were
created by the
primitive man
that used them
with their
beliefs and
religious
rituals. It is
as old as the
human race.
Approximately
100 years after
cocaine entered
into use, a new
variation of the
substance
emerged. This
substance,
crack, became
enormously
popular in the
mid-1980s due in
part to its
almost immediate
high and the
fact that it is
inexpensive to
produce and buy.
Crack has
appeared in
order to provoke
political,
social and
scientific
change worldwide
but mainly to
enable us to
discuss and
improve human
relationships.
It also enables
us to open our
eyes regarding
drugs. Alcohol,
for instance, is
so incentivised
nowadays.
Therefore, it is
in fact a
gateway to other
stronger drugs
and spiritual
obsessions.
O Consolador:
What are the
main reasons for
human beings to
get involved
with drugs,
even though they
are aware of its
severe
consequences?
The lack of
paternal and
maternal love is
one of the
strongest
causes. When the
relationship
between son and
parents is
inexistent or
weak, the child
usually lacks
trusting other
human beings and
searches for
chemical
substances in
order to
overcome his/her
difficulties.
O Consolador:
What are the
main
consequences for
the drug addicts
and their
families, based
on your clinical
experience?
Some
consequences
that can be is
noticeable are:
the lack of
energy,
absences,
scholar
reproves,
traffic
accidents which
could be lethal,
aggressions,
suicides,
homicides, lack
of physical and
mental health.
O Consolador:
What would you
suggest to
spiritist
leaders in order
to help those
who come to the
spiritist
centres for help
against drugs?
The spiritist
centres need to
offer the drug
addicts and the
families as much
spiritual help
as possible
(spiritual
counselling,
public lectures,
healing,
fluidified
water, spiritist
literature). At
Grupo
Espírita Seara
do Mestre
these colleagues
are sent to
Apoio Fraterno.
Besides that, we
need to help
them to get
psychiatric and
psychological
help.
O Consolador:
What are the
goals of the
group
Apoio Fraterno?
This is a
self-supporting
group with the
foundation based
on the Spiritist
Doctrine. We aim
to help drug
addicts and
their relatives.
Its main purpose
is to encourage
them to abstain
completely from
all drugs
including
alcohol. We have
weekly meetings
for 1 hour and
half at the
spiritist
centre. We
follow the
Narcotics
Anonymous
technique of a
series of twelve
steps. These
steps include
admitting to a
drug problem;
seeking help;
self-appraisal;
confidential
self-disclosure;
making amends
when possible,
where harm has
been done;
achieving a
spiritual
awakening and
supporting other
drug addicts who
want to recover.
This has been
adapted in
accordance with
the Spiritist
Doctrine. All
this has been
detailed on the
book
“Apoio
Fraterno:
Auxiliando Almas
a Vencer a
Drogadição”
(Fraternal Help:
Helping souls to
overcome drugs).
This book
has been written
by me in
conjunction with
other workers
from the
spiritist group
Grupo Espírita
Seara do Mestre,
can
be purchased by
whoever wants to
get to know this
work in detail.
During the
meeting the
group share
their own
experience
through
confidential
self-disclosure.
This aims to
help the
participants to
understand the
disease and help
them change
their attitude.
Before we start
with the
self-disclosure
part, we study
parts of the
book “Fraternal
Help”. This
work is done by
the Spiritual
Benefactors.
Each principle
is talked
through during
three
consecutive
weeks. On the
4th week the
second chapter
of the book will
be studied. This
part contains
the main
psi-active
substances
(drugs). On the
5th week the
Gospel According
to Spiritism is
studied. The
group meets
throughout the
year, as well
over the
weekends. This
work was made
possible due to
discipline,
dedication,
faith and
direction from
the Spiritual
Benefactors.
O Consolador:
How was the
group Apoio
Fraterno
created?
It came out at a
public lecture
where this theme
was being
discussed. I
wanted to reach
the spiritist
workers so that
they would get
involved with
this theme. When
I asked the
audience a
question, I was
able to hear a
spiritual voice
telling me: “Why
not you?” I got
scared, but
after speaking
to other members
of the centre, I
decided to face
the challenge
and start to
work. I was
invited to start
a new group to
study this topic
and work on a
methodology
around it. Two
years later, we
decided to open
the weekly
sessions for our
brothers and
sisters in need.
The book was
already finished
by then.
O Consolador:
Can you please
tell us about
the motivation
to appply the
twelve steps
from the
Narcotics
Anonymous into
Apoio
Fraterno?
I am convinced
the teachings
from the
Spiritist
Doctrine have
contributed for
this method.
O Consolador:
You have been
working for over
seven years with
Grupo Apoio
Fraterno.
What are the
results you have
been noticing
from this
project?
We can see the
increase of
faith, hope,
strength and
knowledge on the
participants, in
regards to this
challenge they
are facing. The
relatives of
drug addicts
also understand
they are sick
and need to heal
from
co-dependency.
They become
aware of the
need to change
their attitudes,
get ready of
guilt and become
more responsible
for their lives.
They also change
their behaviour
in moments of
crises, demand,
and discipline
and love
unconditionally.
We can also see
the change on
drug dependents
as well. These
changes happen
slowly
throughout
months. They
start to become
more confident,
open for dialog
and
approachable.
They start to
value people
more, leading to
a change on the
family setting:
they become more
balanced,
healthy and
distant from
drugs.
O Consolador:
How do you see
the new
challenges
society faces,
such as virtual
relationships
being built up
and menthal
disorder cases?
Virtual relationships can only grow if the real relationships are
lacking. Menthal
disorder cases
are increasing
due to the lack
of inconditional
love,
resignation,
true faith and
charity.
O Consolador:
Can you please
give us your
final words?
I would like to
thank you for
the opportunity
to talk about
our work. I will
leave you my
contact details
for later
reference, if
you require any
further
assistance:
apoiofraterno@searadomestre.com.br. |